Terry James Bockes

Terry James Bockes, born on May 6, 1957, in Kansas City, Missouri, passed away peacefully at his home in Midland City, Alabama, on February 15, 2026, surrounded by the love and comfort of family and close friends.

Terry proudly served his country as a dedicated member of the United States Army for 27 years. His military career was a defining part of his life, marked by unwavering commitment, strength, and a deep sense of duty. He formed lifelong bonds with his fellow servicemen and women, whom he considered family. The pride he carried for his service and his military family was evident to all who knew him.

A devoted sports fan, Terry rarely missed a chance to cheer on his beloved Kansas City Chiefs and the LSU Tigers. Whether watching a game at home or talking football with friends, his enthusiasm was contagious and brought people together.

Above all, Terry was a loving and generous man whose heart was as big as his personality. He was quick with a smile, steady with his support, and always willing to lend a helping hand. His presence brought comfort, laughter, and strength to those around him, and his absence will be deeply felt.

He is survived by his devoted wife, Debi; his brothers, Harry and Garry (Kathy); his sister, Sharon Bockes; his sons, TJ and Jon Bockes; his children, Rebecca Hutson (Scott), Benji Carmena (Toni), and Bill Carmena (Brandi); his grandchildren, Skylar Carmena (Michael), Benjamin Carmena, Gabe Reeves (Mileigh), Bradley Hutson, Grace Carmena, and William Carmena; and his great-grandchildren, Bentlee Casey, Adalyn Casey, and Elliana Holder. He also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews who will cherish his memory.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Hank and Kay Bockes, and his sister-in-law, Becky Bockes.

Terry’s love for his family extended far beyond bloodlines. He treasured his military brothers and sisters and the many friends he loved like family. His legacy of loyalty, generosity, and steadfast love will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He will be greatly missed and forever remembered.