Mary Lee Alston

Mary Lee Alston, affectionately known as "Dot" to her loved ones, passed away peacefully on December 12, 2025, in Dothan, Alabama, just shy of her 90th birthday. Born in Enfield, North Carolina, on December 21, 1935, to the late Hellen Williams and Estee Gray, Mary's journey through life was marked by her unwavering faith, love for her family, and a dedicated work ethic that inspired all who knew her.

Mary's early years in North Carolina were the foundation of a life characterized by strength and resilience. The transition from her birthplace to a new chapter in New Jersey was a significant milestone. There, she joined the workforce at William Bal Corp in Elizabeth, where she served with distinction until her well-earned retirement. Her colleagues remember her as a steadfast and reliable presence, a testament to her commitment to excellence in all her endeavors.

Her work was an important part of her life, but Mary's heart always belonged to her family and her faith. She was a beacon of compassion and love, leaving behind her loving daughter Mary Frances Johnson, who was her pride and joy. Mary's legacy continues through her two cherished grandchildren, Jason L. Johnson (Candiss) and Nicole M. Johnson, and two great-granddaughters, Jade Jones and Destini, who will carry forward her spirit of generosity and kindness. She also leaves behind her devoted brother, Willie Lee Terry, and her treasured nephews, Cedric and Jason Terry, and niece, Sylvia Terry, along with a host of family members and new friends made in Dothan.

Mary's faith was the cornerstone of her life. She joined the Peaceful Zion Baptist Church in East Orange, New Jersey, where she worshipped and lifted her voice in song as a member of the choir for over fifty years. Her favorite scripture, Matthew 19:23-24, was a source of comfort and guidance throughout her life. Mary's commitment to her church and her God was a reflection of her deep and abiding belief in the power of love and compassion.

Those who had the privilege of knowing Mary describe her as a blessing to those she met. She was a daughter, sister, wife to her late husband, Rudolph Lashley, mother, grandmother, and friend whose influence will be felt for generations. Her role as the matriarch of her family was not just a title but a position she held with grace, offering wisdom and support to all.

Mary's life was a testament to the power of love and the strength of family bonds. Her passing leaves a void in the hearts of those who loved her, but her memory will be cherished forever. As we say goodbye to Mary Lee Alston, we celebrate the incredible impact of her 89 years on this earth. She was, without a doubt, the loving greatest mother ever, and we are so glad and blessed to have been graced by her presence. Mary, you will be profoundly missed. Your light will continue to shine brightly in the lives you've touched. Rest in peace, dear Mary, until we meet again.

A celebration of Mary’s life will be held at 11:00 am on Friday, December 19, 2025 at Sunset Funeral Home with Rev. Jason L. Johnson officiating. Entombment will follow in Sunset Memorial Park. The family will receive friends one hour prior to service time.