Gerald Wayne Hendley

Gerald Wayne Hendley, affectionately known as Jerry, passed away peacefully on January 8, 2026, in Dothan, AL, at the age of 77. Born on February 12, 1948 to the late Elmo Hendley and Eva Heard Hendley, in Bainbridge, GA, Jerry was a man whose robust laughter and steady presence filled the lives of those around him with warmth and comfort.

Jerry's early years were spent in the quaint town of Bainbridge where he graduated from Bainbridge High School. His patriotic spirit led him to a distinguished career in the United States Army, where he honorably served his country for over two decades, retiring as a Lt. Colonel in 1988. A Vietnam Veteran with two tours, Jerry's bravery and dedication to his nation were hallmarks of his character. He was the platoon leader for the 335th Armed Assault Helicopter Platoon.

After his military career, Jerry transitioned to civilian life with the same dedication and fervor. He was employed with Wells Fargo Armored Car division, followed by a position at an Auto Finance Company. His work ethic and leadership skills were evident to all who worked alongside him.

Jerry was a man of many interests, finding joy in the simple pleasures of life. He was an avid reader with a particular passion for Civil War and history books, which reflected his deep love for his country. He also enjoyed a round of golf, savoring the outdoors and the camaraderie of friends on the greens. Jerry's love for Navarre Beach, FL was profound, and he lived there prior to moving back to Dothan 11 years ago, where he continued to embrace the coastal lifestyle.

He was known for being a caring and strong man, especially loving towards his daughters, Karen (Kevin) Drumwright, Laura (Mitchell) Starkey, and Julianna (Cody) Morelock, whom he raised with a balance of discipline and tenderness. His hard-headed nature was tempered by his loving heart, and he was deeply respected by his grandchildren, Grant (Katie) Silverman, Libby Silverman, Anna Starkey, Katherine Starkey, and Connor Morelock, who saw him as a pillar of strength and wisdom. His great-granddaughter Hendley Howell brought him immense joy in his later years.

Jerry is also survived by his sister Diane (Isaac) Tyler, with whom he shared a bond of mutual respect and affection. His life was enriched by the presence of several nieces, nephews, and cousins, each of whom will carry forward his legacy of love and wisdom.

Those who knew Jerry understood his love for a good cold beer, red wine or Irish whiskey, which he enjoyed in the company of friends and family. His presence was a comforting constant, and his daughters often thought of him as invincible, testament to his unwavering strength and the safety they felt in his care.

Jerry's passing leaves behind a legacy that is best described by the words loving and wise. His guidance and love shaped the lives of his family, and his absence will be deeply felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

We bid farewell to a man whose life was a testament to the values of dedication, love, and patriotism. Gerald Wayne Hendley will be remembered not just for the roles he played, but for the immense heart with which he played them. His spirit will continue to inspire those he leaves behind, as they strive to honor his memory by living lives full of the love and strength he exemplified. Jerry's journey through life was marked by courage, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to his loved ones, and he will be dearly missed.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday, January 13, 2026 at 2:00 pm in the Belle Meade Chapel at Sunset with Father Patrick Gallagher officiating. Military Honors will follow in Sunset Memorial Park. The family will receive friends at the funeral home for one hour prior to the service.