Everett Lamar Tolar

Everett Lamar Tolar, known as Everett to his friends and family and Evie to his Navy buddies, passed away on August 22, 2025, in Birmingham, AL, at the age of 63. Born on November 1, 1961, in Pansey, AL; he was a true southern gentleman that loved his family, friends, and country.

Everett was a graduate of Ashford Academy, where he was known for his musical talents, which earned him a scholarship to Wallace Community College. There, he obtained an associate degree in music, a pursuit that brought joy to him and those fortunate enough to hear his performances. His passion for music was only matched by his love for his country, which led him to enlist in the Navy, serving with distinction and forming lifelong friendships.

After his naval service, Everett embarked on a career as an electrician, a trade that took him on the road before he settled into positions at Georgia Pacific's paper mill and later at Farley Nuclear Plant. His work was not only a means to provide but also a source of pride, especially in his commitment to American-made quality.

Everett's life was a tapestry of dedication, dedication to his family, his work, and his country. He was preceded in death by his loving parents, Everett Faye Tolar and Mary Evelyn Cherry and his older brother, Terry Tolar. His memory will be cherished and kept alive by his beloved wife, Amie Tolar; his children, Melissa (Jim) Conroy, Logan Tolar, Samantha Tolar, and Clay Tolar; and his 7 adoring grandchildren, James, Shane, Henry, Jackson, Luke, Brynlee and Ava, whose names and laughter filled his home with joy. He will also be fondly remembered by his siblings, Mary Ann Elmore, Jean Cook, Glenda Marilyn Holmes, a host of nieces and nephews, and the band of Navy friends who remained in close contact through the years.

Outside of his professional life, Everett was a man of many interests and talents. For four years, he lit up the stage on "Dancing with the Stars Dothan Style," moving with a rhythm that matched his vibrant spirit. A devout man, his faith was ever-present, and he often shared it through song with his church band.

Everett's love for his family was paralleled only by his love for the great outdoors. An avid hunter and fisherman, he found solace and excitement in the natural beauty of the Chattahoochee River, where many family memories were made aboard his boat. He was also a frequent visitor to the sandy shores of Panama City Beach, FL, and St. Andrews State Park, where the ocean's embrace was a source of endless fascination and relaxation. As a staunch Alabama Football fan, his autumn Saturdays were spent cheering for his beloved team, a tradition he passed down to his children.

Described by those who knew him as faith-filled, loving, and friendly, Everett's legacy is one of a life well-lived and love well-given. His patriotism, passion for American craftsmanship, and commitment to his community marked him as a man of principle and heart.

Everett's life was a testament to the values he held dear, and his memory will continue to inspire those who knew him. His gentle spirit, unwavering faith, and the joy he found in the simple pleasures of life will be deeply missed but never forgotten. As we bid farewell to Everett Lamar Tolar, we do so with gratitude for the time we shared with him and the lessons he taught us through his example of a life filled with love, laughter, and loyalty.

A celebration of Everett’s life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, September 6, 2025, at Sunset Funeral Home Chapel, with Pastor Fred Bacher officiating. Following the service, the family will continue the celebration and receive friends in the reception hall. In lieu of flowers, please make a contribution to your favorite charity in Everett's memory or to one of these which directly benefit those who are having a bone marrow transplant:

BMT Cancer Research - Everett's case was complex and will be used to help future transplant patients. Support this research here.

https://tinyurl.com/Bone-Marrow-Research -- "choose fund" / O'Neal Comprehensive Cancer - Bone Marrow Transplant Research

NMDP - covers the cost of bone marrow donors process

https://giving.nmdp.org/