With deep compassion and profound respect, we announce the passing of Eldridge Robert “Bob” Barnes, 83, of Daleville, Alabama, who departed this life peacefully on Sunday, October 12, 2025, at Baptist South Hospital in Montgomery.
Born in Honolulu, Hawaii during the tumultuous days following the attack on Pearl Harbor, Bob’s life was shaped by both history and honor from the very beginning. He would go on to dedicate over five decades to Army Aviation—serving his nation with unwavering courage, selflessness, and humility.
Bob served multiple combat tours in Vietnam, where his bravery became the stuff of legend. Over the course of his military career, he earned 37 Air Medals and the prestigious Distinguished Flying Cross, awarded for heroic action during a harrowing mission near the Vietnam-Cambodia border. When his helicopter was brought down by heavy enemy fire, Bob led his crew through treacherous terrain, navigating danger with calm resolve until they were safely rescued—without a single life lost. This act of valor was one of many; he flew countless helicopter missions to evacuate wounded soldiers from hostile landing zones, often braving intense enemy fire to bring others home.
He served a decade on active duty as a U.S. Army helicopter pilot. After returning from Vietnam, he continued his service to our nation for the next 40 years as a flight instructor at Cairns Army Airfield, Fort Rucker—mentoring generations of Army aviators. As a longtime flight commander in the Primary Flight Division, he was known for his exceptional skill, quiet strength, and deep care for his students and peers.
Bob’s life was a tapestry woven with faith, integrity, and love. He was not only a soldier and teacher but also a mentor, a confidant, and a father figure to many. His steady guidance, gentle humor, and enduring kindness left an indelible mark on all who knew him. To be in Bob’s presence was to feel safe, valued, and seen.
He was preceded in death by his parents, John R. and Connie C. Barnes, and his sister, InaRae Barnes. He is survived by his son, John Earl Barnes of Columbia, Maryland; daughter, Nicole Lorraine Eagen Hutchinson (Mike), Palm Bay, Florida; his daughter-in-law, Denise Barnes; and his cherished granddaughter, Molly—who brought him immense joy and pride.
Bob will be remembered not only for his service and sacrifice but for the quiet wisdom, fierce love, and enduring faith that defined his life. His legacy lives on in the hearts of those who were privileged to know him, and in the countless lives he uplifted with his courage and compassion.
A celebration of Bob’s life will be held on Sunday, October 26, 2025, at 2:00pm in the Sunset Memorial Park Chapel, with Father Jim officiating. Military honors will follow the service.
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